If I have to remind people in my life, in my bedroom, I might as well remind everyone reading this on the internet.

No does not mean “I am playing hard to get”
No does not mean “I am not in the mood, get me in the mood”
No does not mean “I am saying No, but I really mean yes”

No does not mean “yes” until I get angry and kick you out of my house.

The ONLY TIME no means something other than no is when you know the person very well, and you know what they mean… and even then you are on dangerous water.